relationships

Break Up Lines...to Avoid

Relatively mature, kind people seem to be rendered nearly brain dead when breaking up with someone. In efforts to avoid conflict, not hurt anyone’s feelings or not look like the bad guy, we often say the oddest things. Let’s be clear, it is not possible to come up with a break up line that makes the process feel good. However, saying the wrong thing can definitely make the whole thing worse.

What shouldn’t you say?

• Anything that compares the person you’re breaking up with to an ex or to a new person you've met
• Talking about how difficult getting over the break up will be for you
• Pointing out how this whole idea is really in the other person’s best interest
• Making the famous distinction between loving someone vs. being “in love”
• Stating you’re no longer interested but you’d like to keep the benefit or convenience of the sex

There are no perfect words to draw on when ending a relationship. Instead, let’s lay out some break up lines to avoid:

• I’m interested in someone else. You’d really like him/her.
• You can’t imagine how hard this is for me.
• I just don’t want you to get too attached.
• I don’t feel that way about you, but the sex has been really good.
• I'm getting married this weekend so I won’t be able to see you anymore.
• Trust me, I’m doing you a favor.
• I need to find myself.
• Right now I don't feel like I can give you what you need.
• I’ve been doing a lot of thinking….
• I don’t want to be together anymore, but we can still have sex if you want.
• I love you, but I'm not "in love" with you.
• It’s not you, it’s me.

48
the percentage of 20-29
years old who think they can be
in love with more than one person at a time


Couples who explore each other's interests, whether it's biking
or catching concerts, are more likely to stay together
source: L.A psychologist Yvonne Thomas, Phd






42%
of people say that post break-up,
they would wait a month before dating again.
source: yahoo survey


Think about pleasuring each other instead of reaching orgasm.
this helps extend the action.
Source: Adam Tokunaga, author of Slow Sex Secrets




When your guy loves another woman...
this 3 simple tips would help deal with you guy's illicit affair


1.Beat the competition
    think about your guy's needs and what he's getting from "the other woman". then meet these needs and surpass
   his expectations. Surprise him by making an effort to look good, being more daring in bed, and planning romantic vacations
   he must realize that you are his girl, and there's no way the other woman would love him intensely as much as you do.


2.Confront your guy
   during the confrontation, keep the focus on him and the relationship. minimize the mistress's importance by leaving her out 
   of the discussion. talk about what you want, and what both of you can do to save the relationship.


3.Acknowledge it's over
   When you're still being taken for granted , or if he's just unwilling ti give his mistress up, then learn how to let go. you really don't
   deserve a two timer guy.

48%

of women having affairs with married men have 

asked them to leave their wives

Source: womansavers.com

60% 
of husbands will have an affair at 
sometime in their marriage

33%

of men are satisfied when they are in a romantic relationship

women are more satisfied with their relationships when their partners 

are physically affectionate in a non-erotic manner.

Honeymoon -  The word first appears in the 16th century. The honey is a reference to the sweetness of a new marriage. And the moon is not a reference to the lunar-based month, but rather a bitter acknowledgment that this sweetness, like a full moon, would quickly fade. 


Only 14% of brides in the USA are engaged to the men they actually marry more than one year. Length of the average engagement is six months. Engagements that are considerably longer tend to raise the odds against happy matrimony. 

Husbands who kiss their wives before leaving home in the morning have been documented to live five years longer than those who do not.  

It's reported that more than 10,000 marriages a year now are directly traceable to romances which begin during coffee breaks.